Good bye Year 2009

Year 2009,

You have not been a kind one to me. First CBS killed Guiding Light. Then my Mom died. Today my Uncle also passed away. While I will mourn the above with all my heart, I will not be mourning the passing of the year 2009. Don’t let the door hit you on the way out.

Good bye

Tis the season for gifts and giving

Do a little Christmas shopping this Tuesday and help the library.  The Ledgewood Barnes & Noble will host an In-store Book Sale for the Roxbury Library on December 15th.  The store will donate a portion of your purchase to the library. After buy your gifts, save some time and stop by the gift wrapping table. The Library and Key Club will be staffing the table for the day and will be happily take that chore off your to-do list. While you wait, relax and take advantage of the library bake sale. Many yummy treats will be on display to tempt you. There will also be programs for all to enjoy at the store that day.

     10:30am - Books for Babies
     2pm - Preschool Holiday Craft - Bring your preschooler to make holiday luminaries.  (Registration is required.  Call the library at 973-584-2400 x503 to register.)
     3pm - Book signing with Janet Pfeiffer, author of The Secret Side of Anger
     4pm - After School Craft - Making ornaments!!
     7pm - Creating a Holiday Centerpiece

A portion of the proceeds from your purchases will go to the Roxbury Library. - BUT only if you mention the Book Fair to the cashier or hand in the Book Fair Voucher. Book Fair Vouchers are available online at http://roxburylibrary.org/pictures/rox-public-library-vouchers.jpg or stop by the library circulation desk.

Winter has arrived

Dear Mr. Snow Miser (Winter, if I may),

I was not prepared for your appearance today. While I know it is December and I live in the northeast, your brother Heat Miser has been dominating the weather here lately. Just yesterday I was running errands in only a light coat. Today, I had to break out my down coat, Uggs, and long underwear. This afternoon we have a full fledged snow storm. The change is far to jarring. Next Fall, please negotiate with your brother for a smoother transition. Thank you.

Your friend,
Kim

Obits aren’t Free Anymore

One of the bizarre, but interesting and useful bits of information I picked up during the process of my mother’s passing is regarding obituaries. While once considered news, in the tightening financial crunch newspapers have been facing for many years, obituaries are now considered classified ads. As such, the length of the record of your loved ones passing is counted by word and charged accordingly. Since it is now considered an ad, the rates fluctuate wildly region to region as well as the size and scope of the publication. 


We live in suburbia, our town’s weekly paper charges a couple hundred while the local daily rates are just under $400. The wider the reaching papers such as our state wide paper not only charges for the print ad, but an additional fee to publish it online as well. One story I recently heard was that the obituary in the New York Times for a stockbroker cost $12,000. That was more than the cost of his cremation and memorial combined. Obviously, obituary costs are now something you seriously need to consider when planning your loved ones final arrangements.

I want to thank my BFF Cathy McGuckin for helping our family write mom’s obit. For the record (and one that is still free), this is my mom’s obituary:

MT. ARLINGTON, NJ—Joyce D. Armstrong died on Friday, November 27, 2009, at Morristown Memorial Hospital after a brief illness. She was 77.

Born in Wilkensburg, PA, to the late Clinton and Mary (Ritts) Burket on October 23, 1932, she was a 34-year resident of Mendham until moving to Mt. Arlington in June, 2006.

Joyce graduated then worked at the Business Training College in Pittsburgh, PA, where she met her husband Joseph Armstrong. Joyce and Joe married on June 6, 1955, at the U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, MD. She would fondly remember their ‘two-year honeymoon’ in Hawaii, while Joe served with the U.S. Marine Corps. Prior to their honeymoon, Joyce enjoyed working for Radio personality Mark Evans in Washington, DC.

Joyce was a member of the Newcomers’ Group of Mendham for more than 20 years and enjoyed playing in the bridge club. She also enjoyed traveling and the Naval Academy. Joyce will be remembered by friends and neighbors for her deep love of her family, her beautiful Mendham home—especially her porch swing, her Christmas Eve and Army-Navy Game parties, and her kindness.

She was predeceased by her brother Clinton (1993) and her sister Maybelle Gillespie (1992). Survivors include her husband of 54 years Joseph, her daughter Kimberly of Succasunna, her son Scott of Wilmington, NC, and her beloved grandson Colin of Rockaway.

A memorial service to celebrate Joyce’s life will be held at the Bailey Funeral Home on Saturday, December 12, 2009, at 1:00 PM. A reception will be held at the Elks Club in Gladstone. Entombment will take place at the U.S. Naval Academy Cemetery in Annapolis, MD at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorials be made in Joyce’s name to Cancer Center for Education and Patient Support Fund, Morristown Memorial Health Foundation, PO Box 1956, Morristown, N.J. 07962.

Arrangements are by the Bailey Funeral Home, 8 Hilltop Road, Mendham, NJ, 07945—(973)543-4720, www.baileyfuneralhomes.com.

What's happening at your library today?

In one typical library, 10 AM on Friday means children are listening to a storyteller, computer users are learning to the ins and outs of e-mail, seniors are watching a classic film, and students are surfing the Internet completing their homework for the weekend.

Today at the Roxbury Library, at 10:30 AM children will be listening to Fab Friday Storytime in the children’s department.  At 2 PM, Bernard Hailperin will be talking about his experience in Italy during World War II and signing copies of his book, The Children of Vesuvius. Then at 8 PM the teens takeover the library and turn it into a coffee house. Bring your high school id and come for coffee, snacks, and great music. 


As always during the day, patrons can stop in browse the stacks or pickup a movie or two for the weekend.

Visit your library today and see what’s happening!

Books for Babies

The Friends of the Roxbury Library invite you to participate in the Books for Babies program. Books for Babies introduce parents of newborns with the important role they play in their child’s literacy development. Parents can start their babies on the path to success in reading and learning by regularly reading to newborns.   Studies show that babies who enjoy early and frequent experiences with books start kindergarten well ahead of those who have lacked such experiences. The packet features baby’s first board book, and library card.  There are a number of brochures giving parents ideas to encourage their children to become readers including: “Babies Love Books” a guide for grown-ups, “Read to Me” with tips on reading to children and “Raising a Reader, Raising a Writer” – a booklet from the National Association for the Education of Young Children.  Drop in Tuesday, December 1^st at 10:30 for the next Books for Babies program and pickup your packet.

10 Free Things to Do at the Library

10 Free Things to do at the Library

1	Use a computer	Use the library’s terminals or bring your own to access the internet at the library, take a computer class to elevate your skills
2	Watch a movie	Frequent the summer films series, teen films or checkout a DVD from the collection
3	Take a class	Learn to use a Word, Excel, PowerPoint, and Photoshop. Take a genealogy class to trace your family tree
4	Read a book	Pick a book and read in the quiet room, participate in summer reading programs for all ages, or grab a mag and catch-up on the latest news in the magazine room
5	Do your homework	Get online homework help access, get help from the reference librarians, or meet your classmates for a study group
6	Enjoy music	Catch a concert at the Friday Night Series, Sing-a-long with Miss Candy or drop in on the Teen Coffee House
7	Join a club	Join a book club on Monday evening, Thursday morning, or create your own with book clubs to go kits
8	Play a game	Drop in Wednesdays for a Mar Jongg game, or Teen night for board games and pizza
9	Listen to a story	Come listen to Books f or Babies, Fab Friday Storytime, or pickup a book-on-CD, and download a book from www.ListenNJnw.com
10	Find a job	Attend a career seminar, browse the job hunting links at www.roxburylibrary.org or job search on the library terminals